Advices!

Advices!

As humans we learn from mistakes. We do not have the luxury of making every mistake and learn from those mistakes. So we end up taking advice from people, from books we read etc... However, in my personal opinion, from whom you take advice makes a huge difference. The world is full of people who give away free advice. Look at the people who are giving you advice. Are they successful? Do they have the proper mindset? A growth mindset? Would you look up to them as your roll model? Listen to advice of those people.

Visualize the world as a ladder. There are a lot of people who are above you. A lot of people below you, and a lot at your level. There are people above you, who have a open mind and want to help the people below them to climb up by offering help. There would be people who would want to kick you down. There would be people at your level and below level who could be pushing you to go to next level. There could be people who could be trying to pull you down to their level.

Once you have that visualization whose advice would you take? Remember everyone gives advice. The people pulling you up or the people kicking you down? The people pushing you up or the people pulling you down? Once you get to the next level, don't forget to lean back to help your pushers, if possible, gather your pushers around and climb up to the next level together. See if you can help your pullers by pushing them to propel up. And always have respect and gratitude to the people who pulled you up and pushed you up.

Advices!